The “It Can Wait” Phenomenon | CBMW | The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood

The “It Can Wait” Phenomenon | CBMW | The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood



"What so

many women are sadly finding today is that the pool of men dries up in

their thirties, and their biological clocks don’t pause so they can

advance their career in their twenties."





You will never "feel" ready to be married or be a parent. So use your brain:

• The average age for a woman to lose her virginity used to be
  about 18, on her wedding night. Now it's, uhhh, 18, but in the back seat
  of a car. The only thing that has changed there is the attitude from
  "sex is the most wonderful of wedding gifts" to "sex is a cheap toy to
  played with with every Tom, Dick, and Harry."

• The time in a woman's life when she has the biggest choice of
  mates is usually in her late teens or early twenties (young men tend to
  die off in wars and stupid accidents, while men age faster and die
  younger from ill health, severely limiting the pool of mates as we get
  older). So the wise woman will look at her pool of choice and pick the
  best candidate available and hold onto him for dear life (and men who
  are married are more successful, healthier and happier too.)

• The time in a woman's life when it is safest for her to start
  having her babies is her twenties. Teens tend to diet to hide a
  pregnancy too much for safety (there's that age delay thing playing in.
  When women married in their mid teens they didn't need to hide a
  pregnancy and so weren't unhealthy.) If you wait until your thirties to
  start the baby life, you have about a 50/50 chance of infertility, after
  40 it's about 80% chance, and after 50 it's 100%. In fact, marrying
  young (18-20) and immediately starting your family is the healthiest
  option if you ever intend to marry and have a family.

• ALL methods of hormonal or surgical birth-control have
  side-affects, some lethal. On the other hand, every baby you have lowers
  your risk of cancer by 2%, while every year you nurse lowers your risk
  by 9% (I should live forever, lol) Doctors during the transition from a
  "culture of life" to the "birth-control culture" noticed that women who
  had large families were healthier than those who didn't. We now have
  increasing proof that that is absolutely true. Every baby leaves behind
  Fetal Stem Cells that have now been observed healing ailments in Mamma.
  Like, maybe, God designed us to "be fruitful and multiply" or
  something. 

• You can go to college at any age. In fact, it is easier and more
  profitable when you are older, more financially stable, and have a
  clearer idea of what you like and don't like (can't tell you how often I
  have read about people hating the field they chose to study after high
  school and having to go back to college anyway to retrain into something
  they do like now that they are mature!)

• You can always start a new career. In fact, the most rewarding careers are generally those begun AFTER 50. 

Looking at these facts it becomes obvious that the feminists are full of bologna. Smart women;

• Get married as soon as possible.

• Have babies as soon as possible.

• Have LOTS of babies.

• Go to college as you approach menopause. Save for it so you can do it without the crippling debt the kids are aquiering.

• Enjoy your career while you are enjoying your grandkids!