I am posting these articles on porn because I have read so many heart breaking letters on forums frequented mostly by women.
My observations from these stories:
- Men's behavior is different if they are viewing porn on a regular basis. Generally they get more violent, distracted, and ruder to their wives. They also tend to loose perspective on what is appropiate things to say sexually in front of others.
- The couple's sex life disintegrates. He wants to do the things he sees and expects her to preform. She wants to relax and make love. This can become irreconcilable.
- The man becomes less tolerant of his wife doing anything but sex and is irritable at the children for needing attention from either parent.
- The woman, no matter how often her hubby tells her differently, feels ugly, old, and undesirable. A woman has a need to be the one focus of a man's sexual attention. This need is not met when he is distracted by porn.
The take-away lesson is, men, if you love your wife, if you want to stay married avoid porn of all kinds like the plague.
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